Newsflash from the open-minded Aquarius moon: When you have but one objective, the rest of your experience will bend to it. This produces a narrow view of the world that may serve your objective quite well. In this case, you had better be quite sure that the objective is worthy of the energy and perspective it demands.
ARIES (March 21-April 19). Your loved ones will be the ones most likely to unintentionally offend you, and that’s precisely why you need to tell them when they do things that bother you.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20). Talent is necessary, but work is more necessary. The one who puts in the most work will win regardless of talent level. Therefore, it is ambition, not talent, that will take you to the top.
GEMINI (May 21-June 21). There’s adventure ripe for the taking if you’re willing to travel to a new address or answer an unidentified call. (Note that the latter may be more of an adventure in hanging up on a telemarketer.)
CANCER (June 22-July 22). You are doing so much on your own these days that socializing could seem like a chore. Increase your exposure to people. Otherwise, how are you going to keep up your skills?
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22). Small, lighthearted revelations are what bond you with others – so do share. As far as anything deeper, write it out first. Become clear in your own thinking, and this will lead to a better connection.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22). It is natural and yet unwise to think that others see the world as you do. Your thought process is as unique as theirs. It is only by assuming that you don’t know that you can come to know.
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23). Keeping the focus on another can be challenging when there’s so much you have to share on a subject. But exercise a little restraint, and you’ll be glad you did. You’ll be better for learning from the experiences of others.
SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). Events that are outside of your control will change the rhythm of your day. Don’t be afraid of this. Assume that the new rhythm will be fine, too, if not more beneficial than if you had been able to rule absolutely.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21). Experience and mistakes – they are the only way to learn. There is no magic solution, and the one who says there is most likely wants your money. Some degree of skepticism will be wise. Investigate before you buy.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19). The reason the action seems to be thwarted is because someone is sitting on the fence waiting to be pushed one way or the other. You’re just the person to nudge things in a positive direction.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18). If you’re not going to bring the superstar energy to the task at hand (and you’re probably still debating whether you’re up to it), the next best thing to bring is kindness. Being nice counts for a lot today.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20). Feelings, not facts, are at the heart of the matter. When people tell you how they feel, it’s valuable information. Rephrase it back to them in as neutral of a way as possible, and you’ll bond in understanding.
TODAY’S BIRTHDAY. You’ll be accused of being a workaholic next month, but they don’t understand that your business is about more than money: It’s a way to get more out of life! Get clear on your goals for 2014 because you’ll meet them by the year’s end with a little help. Loved ones offer the support that is easiest for them to give – that is, unless you ask for specific help. Capricorn and Scorpio people adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 4, 25, 44, 15 and 32.
ASTROLOGICAL QUESTIONS: “What are the signs that a Capricorn guy is into you? I’m getting mixed signals. Sometimes he’s extra flirty, especially in late-night texts. Then when I follow up the next day, he sometimes doesn’t answer at all. I’ll see him when we’re out, and it sometimes works out magically. It feels like we have something really special. But then he doesn’t call for weeks and seems reluctant to make plans. It’s as though the stars have to align for us to meet up, and when they do, it’s amazing. When they don’t, I start to obsess. How do I play this one? I’m a Leo.”
The obsessive energy drives him away. This is true even if you don’t act on it, because your Leo intensity (which is helpful and positive when applied to many areas of life, but not to this one) can be felt strongly on a spiritual and emotional level. It scares your practical Capricorn because he’s not wanting a serious thing from you at this time. This ultra-casual connection can only be enjoyed by both parties if they are equally satisfied with it. Release any expectation that this is “a thing,” and see it instead as sheer fun in the moment.
CELEBRITY PROFILES: Abby Elliott has a busy year ahead with the release of “Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles,” the romantic comedy “Sex Ed” and much more. This “Saturday Night Live” alumnus is the first second-generation cast member, as her father, Chris Elliott, was also in the cast. Elliott was born when the sun and Venus were both in Gemini, lending the kind of quick, sharp wit that’s ideal for comedy.
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